When A Birth Plan Doesn’t Go To Plan – Part 1

My Birth Plan was pretty simple:

An induction at 38 weeks (after a scan at 37 weeks to ensure bubs would be big enough) to reduce the liklihood of a 3rd degree tear during delivery.

I came close with the birth of my last child and the dr wanted to avoid this at all costs.

Her goal was no tearing at all.

Gotta aim high!

Pain Relief:

Having had 1 birth using Pethidine and 2 births using NOTHING (not fun!), I wasn’t keen for either of those options.

My dr recommended an Epidural as this would have the added benefit of slowing down the 2nd stage and giving me more control.  This gave us a better chance of avoiding a nasty tear.

I was concerned about the Epidural stopping labour so the plan was to start the Epidural when 7cm dilated.

Given that during my 1st 3 labors, I had dilated quite quickly, I was comfortable with that as a plan.

Great Minds:

I had a day in mind for when I wanted to be induced.

Tuesday 13th November.

Walked into dr’s office for final check up and she says “how does next Tuesday sound?”

She’s already booked me into the hospital for the very day I wanted!

Almost had to pick hubby’s jaw up from the floor!  LOL.

 

Brain Dead

So I’ve been wanting to write posts.

Have had plenty to say.

Including my planned posts on what happened when Luke was born.

But I’m brain dead.

Not sure if it’s baby brain or from the anaesthetic.

But it makes it hard to write coherent posts.

Not to mention it’s hard to type with a baby in your arms.

And half the time the internet won’t work.  😦

Excuses, Excuses.  I know.

We’re just surviving here.

I hope you’ll bear with me until I’m back on track.

And Christmas?

Lovely and simple.

MIL cooked a turkey roll.

We bought some shaved ham.

And put them with salad.

Just Farmboy (hubby) and I with the kids.

And a white chocolate cheesecake that hubby helped me make (using the Thermomix of course).

Introducing….

Luke Jeremiah

Baby Luke

Born Tuesday 13th November

2900g

49cm

My apologies for not posting earlier.  Things didn’t go quite to plan and I’ve been a little dazed and unwell.  Hopefully I’ll post the birth story soon.

New Laundry

I’ve always wanted to have a “nice” laundry.

It’s a tricky room because it’s used a lot, gets messy easily and can become a dumping ground for all kinds of things that don’t have a home.

When we built this house, we kept the laundry pretty basic, with plans to do it up “one day”.

Well, one day has finally arrived.

We got some brochures from the local hardware store and started planning.

Farmboy ordered the cupboards we wanted.  I chose a pull-out ironing board and a hamper cupboard as well as a half broom cupboard, overhead cupboard, overhead cupboard without doors and a regular cupboard.

Here are some before shots:

Kind of feral looking isn’t it?

I will admit this is actually worse than “normal” as some of the cupboards we used to have in the laundry were moved out to the games room. So this as an “interim mess”.

Still, we did quite a bit of culling while the stuff was being moved out and in again.

Once the cupboards were installed, we ordered the benchtops.  So I had a few weeks with topless cupboards!!!

Here’s the finished product:

I’m a bit disappointed that Farmboy decided to put the UHF etc right there in plain sight with all the cords etc.  😦  I know it has to go somewhere but the laundry wasn’t even finished so I couldn’t even get a nice “after shot” before it went in.  I would have preferred it over by the window where we already have cords and things anyway (and not so visible from family room).  Oh well, it’s still a functional room, not a display room.

Here it is with my baskets put back.  The cane basket is for Farmboys “stuff” that ends up all over the place when he comes in at night.

This is where we’re going to set up the baby change area.

It’s amazing how much difference the right storage can make.  I ended up with that double door cupboard empty.  Which is great as it now has baby stuff in it.  I had no idea where I was going to put the baby’s stuff so that was a bonus!  We’ll put a change mat on top and a basket with change stuff in it.

The challenge now?  To keep it tidy!  At least when it is tidy, it’ll look great!  And so far, it is more organised which is helping.

Come Baby Shopping With Me?

I’m trying to sit on my hands at the moment.

My online shopping hands that is.

It’s just a bit too easy to overspend.

Something I’ve been guilty of lately.

So I’m trying not to go overboard.

Particularly given we’re not 100% sure it is a boy.

I don’t want to go rebuying the pink stuff I have in blue, only to discover ANOTHER mistake.

Instead, I thought I’d go “virtual shopping”.  Create a “wishlist” so to speak of my “would love but not essential right now” products.

BONDS SIGNATURE SINGLET

Bonds Signature Vest Lucky Blue

These are SOOOOO cute but hard to justify when I can pick up regular singlets for 50c from the Op Shop.  Why can’t someone donate a few of these???? 😉

I do love the Bonds range of stuff and they’re not making it any easier by having a sale on their website at the moment!

BAMBOOTY BAMBOO WRAP

This one is a tough one because I bought one in pink on sale and it is sooooo soft and beautiful.  And I’m a little bit sad because I don’t have anything “special” like it if it’s a boy.

Why does it make it so tough?

Because I don’t think I can even buy one, no matter how badly I wanted it.

Not from the site I bought the pink one from and the Bambooty site says they’re out of stock too. 😦

HOODED TOWEL

Not necessarily this one but a hooded towel of some description.

It’s funny but it’s one of those things I’ve always thought a neat idea, but have never had one for any of my kids.

My mother-in-law likes giving towels as baby gifts (I’ve already been given a new white one for this bubs) so I guess I’ve never felt it made sense to just go out and buy something else.

But they are so cute and so practical, particularly once bubs is moving around more (I like the beach towel version too).

LEATHER PREWALKER BABY SHOES

 

I had a friend lend me a pair of soft leather prewalker shoes when Trailer Boy (now almost 9) was a baby.  They were the coolest thing as they actually STAYED on his feet!!!!

Unfortunately, they are ridiculously expensive (although I think ebay might have some cheaper options).

Well, that’s enough shopping for one night.

But tell me, is there anything you wish you had when your children were babies?

Or something you couldn’t have lived without?

 

Thermie is Here!!!!

If you were a reader of my old blog, you may remember that earlier this year I set myself a challenge to save up for a Thermomix.

 

Since then I have scrimped and saved from the grocery budget (by using up what we have on hand and planning cheaper meals / less wastage etc), added my birthday money, some spare change, some unallocated interest money from our savings account.

It was surprising how quickly the savings started to mount.

Then I started my job (after waiting a full school term) and thought I’d have some extra cash to put toward my total.  Of course, most of my part-time wage got gobbled up by kids stuff so it took a few pay cycles before I realised that instead of waiting to have a big amount left-over, I needed to allocate something each pay toward my thermomix.

In October, the Thermomix customer deal included a free Thermomix Bread Mat (which I don’t think you can actually buy).  Farmboy told me he’d put in the rest of the total as a baby gift for me so I could get it and have time to learn how to use it before bubs arrived.

So, on Monday, my Thermomix consultant drove up with my Thermomix and did a delivery demonstration.  I had a few friends around to show them the Thermomix.  We ate good food and had some laughs.  And as a thankyou, I got the Thermoserver for free (this is a dish that keeps food hot or cold and again, is only available as a gift – can’t be purchased).

The demonstrator made sorbet, dip, coleslaw, bread, risotto and custard in the Thermomix while she was here.

When my guests had gone, we made a batch of the famous Thermomix vegie stock so she could show me how to use the machine.

I think this was my favourite part about the Thermomix.  The personal service.  Yes, you do pay for it in the cost of the machine BUT I have another appliance in my cupboard that I ordered with flybuys reward points and have used once because I haven’t figured out how to properly use it yet. Being shown how to use something is so much easier than trying to nut it out from a poorly translated instruction book.

With an investment like the Thermomix, you certainly want to get the full usage from it!

The demonstrator left just after 5pm.  I had to go out at 7.30pm.  In that time I made chocolate cake, bread rolls, cooked some chicken and added to leftover risotto, ate tea, made custard which we had with the chocolate cake and had a half an hour lie down.

Think Thermie might have been ready for a lie down too after all that hard work!!!  🙂

The kids are VERY excited and planning what they’re going to make in it.  They’ve been pouring through the Everyday Cookbook that came with it planning what they want to try.

Today I’m going to make some lemon meringue pies and who knows what else.

That’s if I get off the computer and make a start! 😉

Are You Ready For Bubs?

I seem to have reached the stage in my pregnancy where a common question is “are you all ready for bubs?”

I think it’s just a way of making small-talk.

But how do you answer that question?

Yes.

No.

Maybe.

Carseat – so we can get home from hospital.  CHECK

Bassinette – reborrowed Mother-In-Laws that most of the grandkids have slept in.  CHECK

Packet of Nappies.  CHECK

Couple of growsuits and singlets.  CHECK

Sling to carry bubs in.  CHECK

Couple of blankets to wrap bubs in / keep warm.  CHECK

I guess we’re kind of ready.

I’m going to need some more singlets and clothes but hoping to get some hand me downs from a neighbour (and maybe a few as gifts).

Have chosen a pram but haven’t bought one yet.

Have bought a few Modern Cloth Nappies to try but probably won’t try any of those in the first month or two.

We’re pretty much taking the simple route this time around.

No much room for too much “stuff”.

And no doubt we’ll accumulate as we go along.

Then there’s the other side of the question.

AM I READY TO HAVE THE BABY?

Not sure.

Giving birth?

Not really.  Although no doubt in another few weeks I’ll be so sick of myself I’ll want it out regardless.

Am I ready to have a baby to look after 24/7?

Cuddles – YES.

The rest (along with single parenting 4 kids due to harvest)?  Not so sure.

But babies are the original players of the game “coming ready or not!”.  😉

I’m sure it’ll all be fine.

Mostly I feel quite casual about the whole thing.

Probably need to think about packing a hospital bag soon I suppose….

Houseboating on a Budget

It’s easy to think of houseboating as a “luxury holiday” and of course, it is if you compare it to something like camping.

Our houseboat owner actually called houseboating the “modern form of camping”.

Fair enough.

So, how much does it cost to hire a houseboat?

It all depends on which one you hire and where you hire from.

Here’s a few things I learnt recently:

1. Most houseboats are similar in size

Most houseboats we looked at were around the 20m x 8m in size, regardless of price and features. A few are slightly wider.  Some have a second story with extra rooms BUT had less outdoor area instead.

Features like more bedrooms will cost you more but you end up with smaller rooms and less living space.

Our houseboat was rated for 10 passengers (you can get them up to 12 passengers) but only had 4 rooms so the 2 teenage boys slept on swags in the living area and we put their gear in one of the bedrooms during the day.

One less bedroom and no dishwasher saved us around $1500 over the 4 night hire period.

2.  Less features will save you money

This is one of those things where you need to weigh up your budget vs what will make it a relaxing holiday.  I really wanted to get a houseboat with a dishwasher but there were none available for the time frame we were looking to book.

As it turned out, it really wasn’t necessary.  Our kids are old enough that for breakfast and lunch, we did a “wash your own dishes” and for each of the 3 evening meals we had on the boat, 1 pair of kids (1 from each family – much more fun doing dishes with a friend than a sibling) did the dishes.  The adults did the extra bits and pieces in between.

And in all honesty?  Doing dishes while you’re cruising down the River Murray is much less monotonous than at home (and we had a large open plan living area so you were still part of the “fun”).  We did keep meals pretty simple (as you do on holidays) so we didn’t have a lot of cooking or preparation dishes to do.

3.  Share the costs by taking a group

We had 2 families so had half the costs each.  4 couples would make it even cheaper.  Most houseboats have “zip beds” that can be made into either a queen or 2 singles depending on the configuration of your group.

4.  Head away from towns

We headed North into the National Park where there were less houseboats, more places to moor and less shops.  For 3 days we happily holidayed without spending anything (other than what we had already paid in food).  On the last day we moored in Renmark and I spent $200. $100 on shopping – which was mostly just clothes for the kids since we don’t live near shops so no major issue.  $100 on eating out.  Again, not a problem as it was planned and most enjoyable.  But if you’re after a “cheap” holiday, not something you need to do.

5.  Avoid peak seasons

Houseboat companies seem to have 3 pricing structures for their hire.  Peak, Off-Peak and Normal.

We went in the middle pricing so it wasn’t the cheapest but wasn’t the most expensive either.

6.  Be prepared to drive further

I started looking into hiring a houseboat from Mannum for another trip (somewhere different).

I was surprised to find that a similar houseboat from towns closer to Adelaide were around $1000 more over a 4 night period than those from places like Renmark.

Being prepared to drive an extra 100km or so could really save some $$$ (I know fuel isn’t cheap these days but you can still drive a fair way for $1000).  It certainly pays to shop around.

How much did it cost us?

The Corrobinnie from Warriuka Houseboats was $1385 for 4 nights.

From what I can gather, that’s a set price for the boat (no paying extra per person).

Around $173 per night per family.

A similar price to a mid-range cabin for our family these days.  If you take into account that they provide linen for ALL the beds whereas a cabin you either bring your own for the kids or pay extra, it’s actually cheaper than a cabin.

You do have to pay for the fuel you use on top of this figure (can’t tell you yet how much we used as still waiting to find out).  They also require a reasonable size cash bond which they take expenses like the fuel out of before refunding the rest (this is what we’re still waiting on – takes a week to process plus postage time).

If you divided it amongst 4 couples instead, you’d be paying $86.50 a night.  Pretty good value if you ask me!

What About Meals?

We kept our meals pretty simple yet delicious.

Most houseboat plans I’ve seen include a BBQ so our evening meals were all cooked on the bbq.

We had variety by cooking different meats on different nights.

We had bacon and eggs for breakfast a couple of times and our friends took pancakes for breakfast – again cooked on the bbq.

Lunches were mostly ham and salad wraps.

Some fruit, dip, nice cheeses and crackers and a few other bits and pieces and we were pretty set for the time we were on the boat.  Plus drinks (I’m sure we had a LOT less alcohol than most people take!).

Some people prefer to combine all their food together.

We chose to keep it separate (but work out similar meals).  It was just easier to manage that way.  I knew what I had for my kids to eat and could balance their intake of “junk” vs “real food”.  And with special dietary requirements for our friends child, I could relax knowing my kids weren’t accidentally eating her food and leaving her with nothing to have.

The boat had 2 fridges and enough cupboard space for us to do this easily.

Extras

I was pretty impressed with a few of the “extra touches” on the boat.

They provided laundry facilities (which was great as I knew we didn’t need to “overpack” as I could wash if needed – I didn’t need to but it was nice to have the option).

The boat was fully air conditioned and had heating facilities as well.  We had to run the generator to run the air conditioning and other power operated appliances (fridges and oven was gas though).

They provided magazines, books and a selection of DVD’s.

The couch and beds were really comfy and didn’t seem at all “cheap” or “old”.  Made the time really comfortable.  The coach even had 2 recliners which was AMAZING for my pregnant body – to be able to easily put my feet up.

And one of the things I appreciated most?  The had a really decent vegetable peeler!  I’d meant to bring my own because I hate the 99c ones provided by most accommodation.  Every time I used it it made me smile (and I made around 3kg of potato salad so I used it quite a bit!).  Funny how the small touches can often make a big difference.

Houseboat Heaven

Our 4 days on the houseboat were some of the most relaxing I think I’ve ever had.  There is something so soothing about gliding down the river with all the convenience of home right there with you.

Taking a nap is easy.

As long as you’re not the one driving at the time:

Getting lunch with spectacular views out the windows hardly seemed like a chore!

And when the day is drawing to a close:

There’s nothing like a campfire by the river!

Or for a classier finish to the day:

Pull up in front of the Renmark Hotel and go out for dinner!  (can highly recommend – was a fabulous meal!).

As you may be able to tell, we had an AWESOME time while away.

With great company!

If you’ve ever considered going on a houseboat and not done it yet, I can highly recommended it.

We’re definitely going to have to go again!

It gets the big thumbs up from me!